“I could never date a SWr”

Then don’t. It’s really that easy. Insecure partners need not apply to this way of life. Sex work IS A JOB, and anyone who is trying to force you out of it does not genuinely love or respect you. If they hit you with the statement, "I’m not bringing a stripper to meet my family," then that is unequivocally your cue to drop them without hesitation. There is no necessity to fantasize about “rejecting” a sex worker as a partner when, in reality, it becomes clear that you aren’t the right fit for a sex worker in the first place. What is the sense in judging others who choose to date or marry those who work in the industry? Other people’s relationships do not include you or your opinions about them. You have to be truly secure within yourself and maintain trust in your partner to navigate this landscape. Relationships with sex workers are certainly not suited for the weak or the insecure. Unfortunately, I’ve previously been in relationships with partners like this, and it was an absolute living nightmare for me. I found myself constantly guilted, subjected to verbal abuse, and missing out on valuable work opportunities because I was prioritizing a fragile man over my job. For your information, these types of partners will NEVER change and will always hurt your bank account. Past relationships like this have come dangerously close to ruining me financially, yet they don’t care… they only seem to want to control your life and choices. Unless they are planning to pay all of your bills and even provide you with an allowance, they do not have your best interests at heart and, in fact, do not want to see you succeed. There are far too many individuals out there who seek to control sex workers and push them out of the industry purely out of ego and insecurity. It is essential to find someone who genuinely supports you in ALL areas of your life because those partners truly do exist. Trying to change someone into your “perfect partner” is not a solid foundation for a healthy relationship.

Take me as I am, and I promise I will love you just as you are.